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You are here: Vidpk.com Discussions » General Discussions » agar ARFEEN ABBAS wala case ap ky...

agar ARFEEN ABBAS wala case ap ky sath hota tu ap kya krty.

4 Apr 2010

popat
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago
1
4 Apr 2010

Arfeen Kay Sath Bohat bura Huwa Aur us say Zyada Saba K Sath.Lakin Aisa Sab aaj Bhi Hamaray haa Ho raha ha.Is say Milti julti kahani Meray aur mearay Ghar Walo k sath hwi.Mujhe Pehlay hi Rishtoo Per Aetbaar nahi tha Lakin 1 aur Haadsy nay Bilkul hi Rishto say Aetbaar kahtam Kar dya hai. Najaany Q aaj kal ki Maaaein Aisa Karti ha Apnay Bacho k sath Unhe Apni Aulaad ki Nahi Apni Khushi ki Pari hoti hai.Ab Sab Rishaty Aur Rishtay daar Bemaani Say lagtay hain Pata nahi Insan Q itna Ana parast aur Khuddar ha.
thegreatali
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago
2
4 Apr 2010

Is pe to mujhay aik hi Shar yaad aata hai.

Qadar hoti khoon kay rishtay mein "Mohsin"
Yousuf(AS) yu na biktay Misar kay Bazaro Mien.
thegreatali
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago
3
4 Apr 2010

hmm..hum aurtain to mardon ki buhat baree baree ghaltyaan muaaf kerdetee hain..unhen jahanum main nahi dhakel deteen...Aurat humesha apni muhabbat ka bharam rakhti hai...lekin mere husband ne ye drama dekh k kaha tha..MERI MAA TO KIYA FARISHTAY BHI UTER K TUMHARE KIRDAAR PER BAAT KARTAY TO MAI YAQEEN NA KARTA)..
:)its just k jis se muhabbat hoti hy us k liye kise gawahi or saboot se zadaa dill ka Aitbaar zaruree hota hy ..wo muhabbat muhabbat ho hee nahi sakti jo bharam na rakhay..or Aitamaad na keray..or pathar marnay walon k sath mil ker pathar maaray!!
booo
from Saudi Arabia
joined 4 yrs ago
4
4 Apr 2010

mrs boo....ap k husband nay aisay is liya kaha kiun k aisa un k saath huwa nahi.....arfeen nay bhi aisay hi baray baray daway kiyay thay k HAM AZMAISH pay poora utarnay walay log hain....TO kia huwa un dawoon ka????
waisay ghalti arfeen ki itni nahi hai kiun k us nay to QURAN ki gawahi ko sach mana.....agar apni maa ka itna hi yaqeen hota to maa ki baat suntay hi saaba ko talaq day daita....kia khayal hai
anmol_muskan
from Canada
joined 4 yrs ago
5
4 Apr 2010

anmol muskan i think u r 100% right. arfeen nay QURAN PAAK ki qawahi ko sach mana. ager saba bi QURAN PAAK peh haath rakh ke halaf uthati and arfeen phir bi saba ko talaq dehta tu arfeen ki ghalti bi thi.
Laila112
from Netherlands
joined 4 yrs ago
6
4 Apr 2010

anmol muskaan mere husband per guzra nahi lekin mere husband ko or her shakhs ko Allah ne aik cheez dee hy or wo hy Aqal...itnay advance daur main jahan aik taraf aarfeen abbas America main rehta hy dostiyan kerta hy lerkion se to doosree taraf mahaz is baat per k saba raat bhar adil k sath room main thi kisee bhi gawahi ko kese maan sakta hay....aaj aap k samnay mai Quran per hath rakh ker gawahi doon k ye jo safaid cheez aap dekh rahi hain ye safaid nahi kaali hy to kiya aap mahaz is liye maan lain gi kyun k mai ne Quran utha liya???Quran qasmain uthwanay k liye nahi Amal k liye utaara gya hy ..or uska ye hukum hy k ager kisee paakeeza aurat per zina ka buhtaan lagaya jaye to us ki mukammal tehqeeqat kero..gawah leker aao..is liye saba ka wo dialogue best dialogue hy jub wo kahti hy ..KISEE AIK KO MUJH SE MUHABBAT HUI HOTI TO MAI YAHAN NA HOTI..it means muihabbat bghair dill k aitamaad k 0 hoti hy....
booo
from Saudi Arabia
joined 4 yrs ago
7
4 Apr 2010

i know mrs booo k QURAN in kamon k liyay nahi hai........aur jahan tak ap aqal ki baat kar rahi hain....aqal thee arfeen k paas k us nay foran hi apni maa ki baat ka yaqeen nahi kar lia.....kano ka kacha hota to foran talaq day daita rite?....aur doosri baat k aitbaar bayshak buhut zaroori hai har rishtay main main arfeen k case main yah aitbaar is liyay bhi incomplete ho gaya kiun k abhi sirf un ka nikah huwa tha....biwi ban janay main aur biwi k saath rahnay main buhut faraq hai......agar arfeen aur saba saath rah rahay hotay aur phir arfeen shak karta to phir us ki ghalti hoti.
anmol_muskan
from Canada
joined 4 yrs ago
8
5 Apr 2010

mrs boo Alah aap aur appkey husband ki mohabat qayam rakhey magar khabhi usey is baat ke y lye test na karna warna believe me result bilkul against the saying hoga
fairy77 [moderator]
from Unknown
joined 4 yrs ago
9
5 Apr 2010

mai test nahi keroon gee faiy..mager mai itna janti hun..mere husband ko mujh per itnba Aitbaar hy k mai aaker usay khud bhi kahun gee k mai ne zinaa kiya hy to wo nahi maanain gy ...he know me..and thats the best part of love..otherwise its not love...
booo
from Saudi Arabia
joined 4 yrs ago
10
5 Apr 2010

again i would say never do so, and would you tell how long you two are married?
fairy77 [moderator]
from Unknown
joined 4 yrs ago
11
5 Apr 2010

abt 2.5 years..
u r right ...insan buhat baar jazbaat main aesee baatain ker jata hy jo baad main implement kerne main usay prob hoti hy mager mera point ye hy ..k muhabbataakhir Aitamaad or aitbaar k siwa kiya cheez hy ??Aarfeen Abbas saba ko Aurat to maanta hee nahi tha..aik jugaah wo kahta hy k saba aurat nahi ishq thi mera...to aap khud socho..jis se hum ishq kerte hon us ko mahaz is baat per k Quran utha liya gya hy chordena chahye ??dill ka aitbaar zaat ka yaqeen ..ye sab meaningless hote hain?ye jantay hue k dunya main 70% log jhooti qasmain or jhootay halaf uthatay hain..aik shakhs apni bachpan ki muhabbat ko zinda dargor kese kersekta hy ...All above fairy..muhabbat kerne walon ko apnay andar gunjaish rakhni chahye..k baree se baree ghalti bhi muaf kerden...or ager wo aesa nahi kersekte to muhabbat ka daawaa bhi na kerain..
booo
from Saudi Arabia
joined 4 yrs ago
12
5 Apr 2010

Mrs boo! ALLAH aap ko hamesha isitarah khush rakhy..lakin haqeeqat is se kuch mukhtalif hai..r jahan mumta aa jati hai wahan bary bary maar kha jaty hein..kun k maa pe aitbar hi itna hota hai..r phir ager maa k sath Quran b ho to bohat namumkin hai k aap usy jhoota keh sako..r bashar to wese b khata ka putla hai..koi b insan perfect nhi hota.
navilla83
from United Kingdom
joined 6 yrs ago
13
5 Apr 2010

ager saba quran per hath rakhti tu arfeen phir bhi saba ko talaq deta konkey yea mard aurat per is mamley kabhi atibar nahee ker saktey or har haal mea saba ko talaq deta
fahadraz
from Unknown
joined 4 yrs ago
14
5 Apr 2010

mrs booo may u have a long happy married life laikin ap ki shadi ko sirf 2.5 saal huway hain....ap k liya yah buhut hon gay laikin jab kismat aisay khail khailti hai to 10 10 saal baad bhi aisay incidents ho jatay hain......bas ALLAH hamay kisi bhi imtihan say bachaye...
anmol_muskan
from Canada
joined 4 yrs ago
15
5 Apr 2010

mrs booo ap yah batain k agar koi ap k samnay kisi baat par QURAN uthaye aur ap ko na pata ho k woh sahi utha raha hai ya jhoota to ap kis ka yaqeen karain gi....apnay dil ka ya QURAN ka..??agar dil ka yaqeen karti hain it means K AP nay QURAN ki gawahi to rad kar dia....kia kahain gi???hamara dil to nahi manta k ham QUran ko chor k apnay dil ko sahi kar dain
anmol_muskan
from Canada
joined 4 yrs ago
16
5 Apr 2010

2.5 years are like honeymoon period , abhi bohat kam arsa hoa hey, iam not saying anything to ofend you but its a truth maritial love is totally different from the LOVE we see in dramas,
agar aulad ki mahbori na ho tu mard aurat ki koi baat na suney sahi shadi 7-8 saal baad shuro hoti hey,most men dont marry for love they have different things in mind, aik baat hamesha yaad rakhien khabhi bhi apna sab kuch husband par na chorien apni haisiat qayam rakhien aur andha aitmaad na karien
fairy77 [moderator]
from Unknown
joined 4 yrs ago
17
5 Apr 2010

yeh sirf aik drama hey magar haqeeqat is sey bhi zayda bitter hey, zayada tar mard ankh band kar key apney gher waloun ki baat suntey hien biwi sey asal situation poochtey bhi nahen,merey husband bohat ache aur suljhey hoye insaan hien bohat educated aur merey inlaws bhi bohat achey hien magar phir bhi khahi jab pakistn jaien aur woh jo bhi keh dien hamesha un ki baat ankhien band kar key mantey hien,jabkey his mother never said anything ever idher udher key loog bat kar detey hien.so be very cautious never trust even if he says anything like that, mard moun par kuch na kahien magar dil mien baat rakh letey hien aur sari umer bhugatna hoti hey,pakistan mien zaya shadian isi lagai bhujai sey totti hien ,afreen did right he had no choice he promised his mother to divorce in case,if he ddnt may be he had forgiven the sin.
fairy77 [moderator]
from Unknown
joined 4 yrs ago
18
5 Apr 2010

omggg i dont belive this yeh kia Aarfeen cafe khul gaya ab yahan? hamaray logoon key paas kitna fazool time hai, jabhe tu hum tarraqqi nahe kar sakay aaj tak, i m sure aap sab loog sahe hain apni jaga per but pls ladies & gents jau kuch kam sham karo. aur kuch bhe nahe karne ko tu Quran paak khool ker parh lo, Maaf kar do Aarfeen aur us key khaandaan ko lol, no hard feelings!
noshees
from United States
joined 4 yrs ago
19
5 Apr 2010

every body listen .m ny pocha tha agar arfeen wala case ap ky sath ho tu ap kya karo gy .is ka jawb do
popat
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago
20
5 Apr 2010

Yes Saba jaisay bahoot saray case hain.... b/c education ki kammy hai, aur mentality ki haraaby.... maynay hud dekhay rishtaydaroon ko.
Kitnay paray likhay dekhay Arfeen jaisay jinky mentality bahoot poorany aur choty soch hai....
aisay logon ka kuch nahy ho sakta.... sirf chitter per saktay hain Arfeen ki amma jaisay logon ko....
atiffan1
from Canada
joined 5 yrs ago
21
5 Apr 2010

nosheen loog farigh waqt mien hi yahan atey hien sara din koi betha nahien rehta kaam chor kar, discussions achi hoti hien give yu a insight and something to grab on,
popat you cant dictate what to discuss most of the ppl replied what would they do.. and its just tooo obvious nothing to ask about the drama portrays the society's trend
fairy77 [moderator]
from Unknown
joined 4 yrs ago
22
6 Apr 2010

ok fairy,lakin jo may poch raha hn us ka tu jawb do ap .ap kya krty agar yhe case ap ky sth hota
popat
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago
23
6 Apr 2010

YAR arfeen saba ka medical check up kara laita na..sab pata chal jata k kuch KIA hai k naih...hahahahhaha:D
anum.faisal
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago
24
6 Apr 2010

lolz wese sab log bhi na..... popat bar bar poch raha hai agar arfeen k sath jo howa wo ap k sath hota tou kia kartay ap log?? sab popat k is sawal ka b jawab dey dein plz lolz anyway mein Aggar larka hota or Allah na kare yeh sab mere sath hota tou mein pehlay "QURAN" par or phir apni "MAA" par hy yakeen karta!!!
becoz dono par hy yakeen karna banta hai aggar koi itni bardi kasam khaa leta hai tou humein chaye us par yakeen karna or arfeen nay Quran par yakeen kiya bohat theek kia dekhnay mein bohat takleef dey zarorre hai par wo saba ki us takleef say anjan tha wo kuch janta nahi tha
or Quran nay Allah nay apna asar dikha diya na sab nay dekh liya wo sab b sach kabhi chupa nahy rehta or jhoot k tou paoon hy nahy hotay
lekin us waqqat jo arfeen nay kiya wo hy karna banta tha agar wo "QURAN" ki kasam ka b yakeen nai karta jese boo keh rahy hain k aitbaar hona chahye lekin Allah or Quraan say ziada yakeen biwi par hona chahye???? hmm yakeen zarorre hona chahye lekin baat Quraan par aa jaye tou i think Quraan paar baat choor deni chahye!
haan agar saba bhi utha lety Quraan k us nay aisa nahy kiya tou phir arfeen ka use choorna galat hota
guriyaa
from Spain
joined 5 yrs ago
25
6 Apr 2010

jo Arfeen nay karha, woh bilkul theek tha q k koi bhi insaan apni Maa pay aur phir apnay pyaar pay yakeen karta. zindagi bhar insaan k liye apni ma pehle hai aur baki sub baad mein. aisi cheeze khuda na qhastha merey saath hota tho patha nahi kay main kya karti. Allah aisay din kissi ko nahi dikhae. Arfeen Abbas ko apni Maa pe isliye yakeen tha q k woh namaazi aur bari aurat thi aur saba sirf uska pyaar tha. anum.faisal yeh aap k liye hai: ek shohar apni biwi ka check up q karae? itni sharam ki baath hai k woh kissi aur k saath thi. aur ek shohar k liye issey bari kya bath ho sakthi hai k uski khud ki biwi kissi aur k saath gehr halat mein nazar aiee. kya usme itni himat hothi k woh yeh sub dekhe? Saba ka kopi ghalthi nahi tha uspe ilzaam lagaya tha. think about it tho.
sham_s
from Canada
joined 4 yrs ago
26
7 Apr 2010

han bat tou buht sharam ki thi magar ho tou gayi thi na ab us nai sach jannay k lia quran bhi tou uthwaya na yai bhi kara laita...gunahgar tou woh abhi bhi saba ko hi samajh raha hia kyun k us nai quran nahi uthaya,sab ki nazar mai woh gunahgar sabit hogai....sharam ka maqam tou us k lia ab bhi buht hai..
anum.faisal
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago
27
7 Apr 2010

Guriyaa..aap aik aurat hoker aesa sochtee hain..mai ne ye nahi kaha k Quran or maa se zada biwee ka yaqeen hona chahye..mera matlab srf ye tha k insaaf hona chahye..or ye insaaf sirf mard kersakta hy ..Aarfeen ko gawahi k baad bhi aik m\auqa saba ko dena chahye tha safayii ka..or aapko aik baat or bta doon k zina ka ilzaam 4 gawahon ki gawahi k bghair wese bhi ghair muatabbar hota hy...or kuch nahi to log ye gawahi hee dedain k haan ye auirat shuroo se badkaar hy to bhi insan maan lay..jis aurat k kirdaar ka gawah khud Aarfeen tha usay sirf auik qasam per is tarah zaleel nahi kerna chahye tha..or anum faisal ne theek kaha..baray nuqsaan se chota nuqsaan acha hota hy..baray gunah se chota gunah bahter hy ..jo kuch is talaq or ilzaam k baad saba per guzree ...us k liye saba ne muaf ker bhi diya ho Allah maaf nahi keray ga ..kyun k Allah talla kisee mazloom ki dua nahi taalta..Aarfeen kuch na kerta ..bas waqt ka intizar kerta..saba ko zaleel ruswa ker k chordena kisee tarah ki insaaniat nahin..
booo
from Saudi Arabia
joined 4 yrs ago
28
7 Apr 2010

or poppat:)...mai ager Aarfeen hoti to mai awaal to insaaf kertee...or kisee qassam gawahi ka aitbaar na kertee kyun k dill se bara muftii koi nahi hota...maui Quran ki gawahi se zada Quran per amal ko moatabbar samajhtii...us k hisaab se fesla kertee...Adil or saba se poochtee...kharay kharay saba ki zindagi ka faisla hergiz na sunatee..or ab jub mujhe haqeeqat ka ilm hua hy to mai saba k qadmon se tab tak na uthtee jub tak wo mujhe muaf ker k mere nikkah main na aajatee ..chahay is k liye mujhe us k ghar k derwazay per umar bhar baithna perta...kyun k zulm buhat baraa tha...taalafii bhi baree honi chahye!
booo
from Saudi Arabia
joined 4 yrs ago
29
7 Apr 2010

or wese...:)is saray muamlay main jo sab se bara qasoorwaar hy wo SABAhy ..kyun k zulm sehne wala bhi buhat gunahgaar hota hy ...mai saba ki jugah hoti or itni perhi likhi hoti to eent se eent baja detee mager khud ko Aarfeen jese bay aitbaar or jhootay shakhs per qurbaan na kertee..kisee konay main jaker apna ghar basatee job kertee mazay kertee apni zindagi jeetee..or aese taaya hote to un ka sar phaar detee:P:P
booo
from Saudi Arabia
joined 4 yrs ago
30
7 Apr 2010

Lolz boo sis..
Allah ka shukar karty hon mein k ap larka nahi hain or arfeen b nahy hain ...yeh sab kehna bohat hy asan hai jo ap nay last msg mein likha hai sab yeh sab karna bohat moushkil...
or sis ap nay kaha na dil say barda mufti koi nai hota yeh b kehnay ki baatein hain... yeh dil hy hota hai jo sakoon mein b nai anay deta agar arfeen aitbaar kar b laita na bohat bharda dil kar k sab kuch nazarandaz kar deta saba par aitbaar dil ki sun kar kar b laita tou b jab tak sach samne na atta us k dil or dimaag mein wohy batein chalty rehni thi or saba k sath khush na rehta saba nay jo saha na zulm wo phir b asan tha k use pata tha wo sachi hai dili sakoon tha use lekin agar arfeen us waqat maaf kar deta baad mein dil mein rakhta or wo pyar na dey pata saba ko tou wo saba k liye ziada na qabile bardasht hota......
guriyaa
from Spain
joined 5 yrs ago
31
7 Apr 2010

or ap nay kaha kissi konay mein apna ghar basati job karty aish karty uff... aisa karna bohat moushkil hai.......
joo pyaar hai yeh bohat zalim cheez hoty hai....... saba ko arfeen say sachi mohabbbat thi agar taya kissi bohat achay young larkay say b us k shadi kar detay koi shehzada b aa jata saba k liye tab b wo khush na rehty us k sath... or meri dil ki Dua hai k saba k sath jo howa wo ap k sath tou door donia ki kissi larki k sath na ho kabhi b "Ameen Sum Ameen"
guriyaa
from Spain
joined 5 yrs ago
32
7 Apr 2010

yaar gurya...ye sab bekaar batain hain..insan ko practical hona chahye..tum ye dekho k hum log sirf tamash been hain phir bhi hum saba k character ko dekh ker gawahi desakte thay k wo buhat achi lerki thi or zina kerne k liye aik musalman lerki ko hudd se zada girna perta hy ..mai nahi maanti k jo shakhs mujhe bachpan se chahta ho mujh se ishq kerta ho wo mujhe itna bhi na samjhay k mai kiya kersakti hun kiya nahin...yaqeen kero sis mere husband ne mujhe aik baar kaha k ager Allah na keray tumhen 4 admi utha ker lay jayen tab bhi mai pur sakoon rahoonga k tum mer jao gee apni izzat qurban nahi kero gee..ye batain hain to kitaabi lekin insani nafsiaat ka izhaar hy k jisay hum chahte hain..jaantay hain or net freindship ya sarak chaap nahi...us k khaandan ki lerki thi ..uska khoon ...itna to koi aqal ka andha nahi hota sis..or khuda ki qassam...believe me..mere maa baap taaya bahan ya khaandan aesa hota to mai waqaee sab ko chor chaar k apni dunya basatee..is liye gurya kyun k zaat ka aitamaad wo wahid cheez hy jis se zindagi asan rehti hy ..wo log jin k hathon main meri perwarish ho..ager wo mera aitbar nahi kersakain to Aaarfen Abbas kiya cheez hy ...or ye to chalo aik drama hy aesa hee hona tha mager real life main aik perhi likhi lerki ko muhabbat k naam per expoloit nahi hona chahye..bhaar main jaye wo sachi muhabbat jis ki bunyaad main na mere liye yaqeen ho na wafa na gunjaish or na koi reham...
booo
from Saudi Arabia
joined 4 yrs ago
33
7 Apr 2010

sis ap ki apni soch hai..
par jese ap keh rahy hain na ap k maa baap rishtay daar behan bhai husband aese hotay tou ap sach mein kahin chali jaty sab say door ...sis humare muashrey mein jis larki k sir par koi na ho na maa baap na behan bhai koi rishtaydaar husband koi na ho na us ko jis nazro say sab dekhtay hain na wo shaid sab jantay hain or wo sab ki nazrein bardasht karnay ka b aik waqt hota hai insan khas kar k aik akeli larki ziada lambay arsay tak strong nai reh sakhty or phir logo ki olti seedhy batein ap ko andar say bohat tanha kar dety hain.. yeh hai tou humare muashray ka sach par kardwa sach ap jaisa kehty hain mein tou ab b kahon gi kehna bohat asan hai karna bohat hy moushkil...........
or saba walli baat jahan tak hai ...saba nay apni zindagi k sab ko sach pata chal janay k baad walay dukh apney hissay mein khud likhay ...sach k baad us ki azmaish ka time khatam ho chuka tha wo chahty tou kar sakhty thi arfeen say shaddi or us ki jo izzat jo maqam ban chuka tha sab ki nazron mein wo us k sabar ka sila hy tha...
guriyaa
from Spain
joined 5 yrs ago
34
7 Apr 2010

baat wohi hui na gurya k sab se zada qasoor saba ka hua...tum muashray k jin haqaiq ki baaat kr rahi ho..wo sab sach hy ..lekin biwee ban k bhi saba ka muashray main koi muqaam to na ban saka...or ager wo apnay ghar walon ko chorr chaar k bhi kahin rehti tab bhi sachayi khulnay per sab us ki tareeef hee kertay....behrhall...jo bhi ho...mai kabhi khud ko aesee logon per qurban nahi ker sakti jinhen meri zaat per zarra barabar aitbar na ho or jo mujhe zinda dargo kerne ka hausla rakhte hon...
booo
from Saudi Arabia
joined 4 yrs ago
35
7 Apr 2010

i think booo k ap is duniya k akaili female ho gi jo aisa soch rahi hai.....aur aisa sochna bhi sirf soch hi rah jati hai jab amal karna paray to buhut mushkil.....guria is rite k ap k khayalat k mutabiq yah sab feasible hona mushkil hai.....bulkay hamay muashray main to namumkin.......ab akaili saba ko apnay doosrya husband say hi kitnay taunts pertay thay k tumharay peechay koi nahi sab tumhay chor chukay hain etc.....
anyways everyone has his own opinion......zabardasti ki to koi baat nahi laikin booo abhi ap ki practical life ko thora hi time huwa hai is liya ap aisi batain karti hi.....waqt k saath insan bbuhut kuch seekhta hai aur zaroori nahi k insan apnay tajarbaat say seekhay bulkay mushahiday say bhi seekhta hai.......anyways no hard feelings for one another we r just talking about arfeen
anmol_muskan
from Canada
joined 4 yrs ago
36
7 Apr 2010

Arfeen ki maa ney Quraan peh haath rakh ker ghoot bola. issi bara gunnaaa kya ho saktha hai? Koi insaan soch bhi kaise saktha hai k woh Quraan peh haath rakh ker ghoot boley ga. woh bhi aisa insaan jo itna namaazi hai. Arfeen apni maa ko ghooti kaise bol saktha hai jab uski maa nay Quraan peh haath rakha tho. koi insaan soch bhi sakth tha hai k koi insaan Quraan peh haath rakh ker ghoot boley ga? hargiz he nahi. ek musulman ho kar aisi baath sochna bhi ghalat hai. Pehli baath yeh k Arfeen ki maa ney QURAAN per haath rakha. or doosri baath yeh k woh Arfeen ki MAA thi. Allah k baath usko apni maa per yakeen tha. issliye jo drama meh bathaya woh bilkul theek tha. isme suchaayi thi! aap sub ka kya opinion hai? i wud really love to knw. u can msg here or msg me privately. ur choice. but plzzz do msg me.
sham_s
from Canada
joined 4 yrs ago
37
7 Apr 2010

boo is right Saba is responsible for her life situation she should had taken a stand against the allegations on her should had sweared on Quran if that was the criterion,should had stodd against the unmatched proposal.. she did nothing as directed by the direcor ofcourse so its only a drama .. nothing more.
and boo is right as well .. aisi mohabat jo zaleel kar dey uska koi faida nahien isis lye har inssaan ko dil key sath dimagh bhi dya gaya hey moabat bhi sooch samjh key ki jati hey , dimagh bh i istimal karna chaye
fairy77 [moderator]
from Unknown
joined 4 yrs ago
38
7 Apr 2010

mohabbat kabhi soch samjh k nahi ki jati ......jo soch k ki jaye woh mohabbat nahi hoti fairy77....aur saba nay quran kiun nahi uthaya .. kiun k agar woh QURAN utha laiti to Quran ka aitbaar kon karta ....i think isi waja say nahi uthaya k is main QURAN ki tazleel thee kiun k un main say aik jhoota hota aga saba bhi uthati to....to phir koi kaisay yaqeen karta k kis nay QURAN pay haath rakh k jhoot bola hai......
aur doosri baat k is saba responsible for the act?obviously she is coz jab aisi situation ho to us main sacahay ki awaz koi nahi sunta ....jhoot hi sab ko sach nazar ata hai......aur main yah is liya kah rahi hun k i have been passed thru such situations jahan sach ko bhi jhoot hi smajha jata hai......
anmol_muskan
from Canada
joined 4 yrs ago
39
8 Apr 2010

anmol muskaan even i have been passes through such situations in my life...lekin aapko lgta hy mai aik practical life nahi guzaar rahi and etc is liye aese batain ker rahi hoon...lekin sisoo....is daur main bhi ager aik perhi likhi lerki is qissam k zulm ko sahay gee to Allah us se hisaab nahi lay ga??k mai ne tumhen ilm diya azadee dee ..soch dee aqal dee ...achay buray ki tameez dee phir tum ne zulm berdasht kyun kiya..\aik gaoon ki goth ki aurat to ye jawaz desakti hy k mujhe kuch ilm nahi tha..maaraa peeta shauher ne maa baap ne kisee k sath bhi rukhsat kerdia sab seh liya..mager mere or ap jese lerki ya saba jesee lerki aesa ketray to mai isay kabeera gunah samajhtee hun..Sister..khaandaan is liye hota hy kyun k wo humaree shanakht hota hy..jo khandaan shanakht mitaanay pe tull jaye us se kinaarakashi behter hy .,..meri nazar main her wo aurat zaalim hy jo capability rakhte hue zulm berdasht keray fazool see muhabbaton k liye ...ghalat hy bsis ..buhat ghalat hy ..hum musalman dunya main ishq o ashiqui k naam per mernay nahi aaye..humaree zindagiaan buhat baa maqsad hain..jub shauher wali hoker bhi saba ko gaaliyan hee khaani theeen to behter hy aurat akele reh ker 10 batain sun lay..atleast wo 10 baatain sunanay walay ius k apnay to nahi hongay!!
booo
from Saudi Arabia
joined 4 yrs ago
40
8 Apr 2010

ohh come on boo sis ab ap topic say haat gai ho baat arfeen k mannay ki thi or saba ka tou mein pehlay b keh chuki hon sachai pata chalnay k baad ki ife us ka khud ka faisla tha ....bar hal arfeen nay jo us time kiya wohy karna banta tha jab Quraan par baat aa jaye or Maa kasam kha lay or saba kasam na khaye phir b wo dil ki sunta or saba par muje aitbar hai aitbar hai ki rutt lagai rakhta come on sis ap khud socho....
arfeen mere khiyal say na bewafa tha na zalim na kasoorwar.. wo wohy dekh raha tha jo us ki ankhein us ki Maa or poray khandan wallay use dikha rahay thay ..na sirf Maa porra khandan saba k khilaf tha wo kis kis ko jhoota sabit karta khandan walo ko?? Maa ko?? ya Quran ki Kasam ko???
or jo kuch saba k sath howa shaddi ya kuch b zulm wo arfeen k samne nahy howa wo wahan say ja chuka tha.... jo kuch saba k sath howa sachai chupi rehnay tak jo zulm us par howay un sab k honay ki zeemedar tai Amman thi!!!! na k arfeen
guriyaa
from Spain
joined 5 yrs ago
41
8 Apr 2010

mohabat sooch kar hi hoti hey warna aap ko bazar mien kharey bhutey bechney waley se kouyn nahien ho jati? green ankhien gora rang sab kuch hota hey , why mostly ppl fell in love witha compatible or say someone near to their situation in life ?fazool batien hien,sachi mohabat ya tu allah ki hey ya waldain ki , hazouroun khawateen aur mard aisey hien jo bharey parey hien infatuation kahien aur thi shadi kahien aur ab khush hien tab lata tha mar jaien gey bagher apney lover key ,
anmol bibi yeh mohabat nahien infatuation hoti hey .....Quran ki tazleel itni asani asey nahien hoti,agar aap sachey hien tu rakhien haath is terha tu ap jhotey ko support kar rahey hien Allah ka haq hey aap par , noone has a right to abuse him/herself. agar saba bhi hath rakh deti tu koi aur tareeqa kya jata jhoot ko kholney ka, na kay sari umer apney app ko zaleel karwa lya ssath apney waldain ko bhi.bahar hal yeh sab fazool behas hey this is only a drama
fairy77 [moderator]
from Unknown
joined 4 yrs ago
42
8 Apr 2010

fairy sis insan ki soch wahan tak hy jaty hai jahan tak wo apni soch ko lay jana chahta hai.
or ap ki soch yahan tak hy hai k mohabbat kuch nai hoty ya soch kar hy ki jaty hai .....mein nay b hazaron log dekhay hain jin ko bina khobsorti dekhay hoi hai mohabbat or sachi mohabbat ...haan ajj kal aisa zarorre hota hai k khobsorti dekhtay hain larkay green eyes paisa yeh wo par zarorri nai jo kuch ho raha ho ap usey hy sach maan lo ajj kal b hoty hai mohabbatbina sochay samjhay.....
guriyaa
from Spain
joined 5 yrs ago
43
8 Apr 2010

Salam all,

I appreciate the opinions given by everyone.I totally agree with FAIRY'S point of view that shade se pehle aisa lagta hai k jisse ham kerna chahte hain ya apne mehboob k beghair nahi reh payein g, but reallity is totally against that k jo partner Allah n apke liye chuna hai is the right match 4 u. Banda kuch nahi kerskta aur jahan tak SABA + Arfeen ki baat hai tu i will say k mujhe tu 2 per taras ata hai na saba ka zayada qasoor tha ,,,, na k arfeen ka usne tu apni taraf se poree koshish ki koi hal nikalne ki and i totally agree k ager arfeen itna hi bewafa + typicall or watever u call it hota tu chahe usse jitna bhi aitbaar hota apne mohabat per tu yeh baat hi aise hai k sunne wala sb kuch bhool jata hai. Ager woh saba se shade ker bhi leta tu apni EGO kisse piyare nahi woh kis tra logun k mun band kerta. And least but not last k hamare zindgiyun main jo kuch bhi hota hai woh sab kuch pehle se hamare kismat main likh diya jata hai aur itne batein kerte hui ya 1 dosre ko ilzaam dete hui ham yeh tu bhool hi jate hain k hamare zindagyun ki door tu uper wale k hath main hai woh kehta hai "KUN" aur bass woh ho jata hai jo hamare kismat main likha ja chuka hai.

Hope U all agree.... cheers
moti2009
from Canada
joined 5 yrs ago
44
8 Apr 2010

gurya be practicle jo bhi mohabat karta hey somewhere in the back of mind they always have a standard koi bhi bas mohabat nahien karta keh karni hey farz hey, agar sooch ka mamla hey tu improve your thoughts , mohbat sirf mohabat samjh key karna is difficult and sirf kamzoor zehan keh loog hi kartey hien, koi sensible insaan apni life tabha nahien karta , life is a gift aur app ka farz hay keh isey behter banaien , Allah ki marzi par sar jhukha dien.
yeh jo zayda tar mohabtien aap dekhti hien yeh sab hormonal hoti hien , insaan ko asal mohabat ka tab andaza hota hey jab ap key apney bachey hotey hien,tab aap chaye jitney bhi teen age mien mohabat mien andhey houn aap unki khater sab chor detey hien aur jo nahien chorta woh bura insaan samjha jata hey.
i know lots of such ppl jo aik zamaney mien kisis aik ki khater sab kuch tayagney ko tayar they, marney marney ki halat thi waldain ko zich kya hoa tha magar jab shadian ho gaien bachey ho gaye tu ab sab theek hey ab khetey hien bari bewaqoofi ki thi....aap abhi 20 saal ki hien abhi sab aisa hi lagta hey magar omer key sath aap dekhien gi keh kuch bhi nahien tha, asal mohabat woh hi hey jo aap apni family ke lye rakhtey hien, yeh hormonal mohabat bohat peechey reh jati hey.
agar yeh infatual mohabat itni hi cheez hey tu kitni larkyan hien jinhien kharehey kharey aik motey kaley kuch na karney waley inssaan se mohabat ho jati hey? kitney larkey hien jo kali moti badshakal larki ki khater mar rahey hien? there is always a criterion and standard so its not instant its standerdized
fairy77 [moderator]
from Unknown
joined 4 yrs ago
45
8 Apr 2010

hum sub alag alag soch k saath apni baathey bol rahein hain. hum sub apni mizaaj k hisaab saey keh rahe hai. agar hum ek doosre k hisaab sey soche tho shayad hum ek doosrey ko samaj sakhey. this is my request. agar aap sub ek doosre k thara sochey tho ek doosri ka point of view dekhe.
sham_s
from Canada
joined 4 yrs ago
46
8 Apr 2010

guriyaa i think aap meri thara he soch thi hai q k menay aap k last few msgs parhey aur mujhe samaj aya k aap bhi ussi thara soch thi hai jis thara main soch thi hoon. im glad to knw that becuz i was thinking that evry1 was saying that arfeen is wrong in giving saba talak. usko talak tho dena he tha saba ko. woh apni maa ko such mantha ya apni biwi ko??? plzz i wud really liike to knw ur opinion. msg back if u wud like
sham_s
from Canada
joined 4 yrs ago
47
8 Apr 2010

ok fairy77 tell me kabhi aisa huwa hai k chalo badsoorat na sahi kisi khubsoorat larki ko hi dekh k kisi larkay nay ya vise versa....unhon nay socha ho k haan isi say mohaabat karun ga ya karun gi....bas yah bata dain k kabhi aisa huwa hai???
kitnay hi log pahlay friend hotay hain laikin unhay mohabbat nahi hoti shroo main laikin waqt k saaath ho jati hai to kia woh soch kar kartay hain k haan yah pyara hai isi say luv ho ga ?for ur kind information jo log payaray nahi hotay un say bhi kisi na kisi ko mohabbat ho hi jati hai....aur asal mohaabat shakal say nahi us banday ki nature say hoti hai.....isi liya jo log pretty nahi hotay shayad un ki nature achi hoti hai jo woh achay lagnay lagtay hain
anmol_muskan
from Canada
joined 4 yrs ago
48
8 Apr 2010

Sub ko Allah nai banaya hai..isiliya sub apni jaga khoobsourat hai....so fairy77...".kitni larkyan hien jinhien kharehey kharey aik motey kaley kuch na karney waley inssaan se mohabat ho jati hey? kitney larkey hien jo kali moti badshakal larki ki khater mar rahey hien? there is always a criterion and standard so its not instant its standerdized"...kisi ko aisai kehna motai kalai..badshakal..thts totally wrong.!!..coz kisi nai apnai apko khud nahi banaya..n jo ap k liya badshakal hai kisi dosrai k liya might be most beautiful person on earth..us waqt sai daro jub apko koi badshakal kahai!!..thn apko kaisa lagaiga?and kala hona is not badsurti!!.
zahraahmed
from United States
joined 5 yrs ago
49
9 Apr 2010

i havent said anyone badsorat or anything but mostly ppl fell for beauty until they dont know the person there isnt anything strange about this all the people all over world specially pakistan are looking for a beauty, until you stay with a person for long enough you dont know the nature everyone knows most men look for beauty not brains.. werna pakistan ki woh larkian jo bohat haseenaien nahien hien ya rang ki gori nahien hien unko shadi mien kouyn mushkil zayda hoti hey..you cant deny the fact.. i know sab ko allah ney banaya hey and iam totaly with girls iam not supporting the biased attitude against them but fact is fact and we all know that.so most ppl in young age fell for beauty and handsomeness.. not nature specially in pakistan and places where they dont stay together long before marriage.. very few ppl fall for nature, mostly mature ones and it takes a long time and oppertunity to know theother person for longenough
where as for muskan FYKI aksar aisa hi hoa hey , aksar larkey eastern society mien larki ka naam bhi nahien jantey aur us key lye ahien bhherteyhien aur us sey shadi key lye marney ko tayar hotey hien app ney khabhi nahien dekha kya?sarak chalti larki key peechey lag gaye aur usi sey shadi ki nature kahan hey?
these are all bookish talk reality is different
fairy77 [moderator]
from Unknown
joined 4 yrs ago
50
9 Apr 2010

yes mostly western society has grown out of the beauty thing here ppl see for nature and compatibility as they have time to spend together while dating but i dont agree for pakistan.. ppl are mature here they move out of a relationship gracefully dont cry and spoil their lives for it
fairy77 [moderator]
from Unknown
joined 4 yrs ago
51
9 Apr 2010

hmmmm sab ki apni soch hai mein nay yeh pehlay hy kaha tha or fairy sis ap nay kaha improve your thoughts ...mujhe nahi zarorrat improvement ki mein jo sochty hon mere khiyal say wo theek hai.. or rahy baat sis practicle honay ki tou ...kia hai practicle honna ?? boo sis kehty hain wo practicle hain or aggar un k sath koi ziyati ho wo apney husband apni family sab ko choor chaar kar reh sath hain akelay kia practicle hona apno say door ho jana hai??kia practicle honna apno ki galtio ko maaf na karna hai??? kia practicle hona sirf apney bare mein sochna hai??? tou mein aese hy theek hon ...Allah apney bando ki bardi say bardi galtiyaab maaf karta hai or Allah ko or Hazrat Muhammad *Saw* ko dosro ki galty par unhey maaf kar denay wallay log bohat passand hain ...or jab Allah humare lakhon gunnah maaf kar deta hai tou kia hum un logo ko jo humein bachpan say pyaar detay hain humein chalna uthna bethna khanay peenay or donia mein rehnay ki tameez sikhatay hain koi galty kar bethay tou hum unhey maaf karnay k bajayee practicle ho jaye ?? nai maan rahay tou na sai bhaar mein jao??? hmm aggar mere ghar wallay like my MaaMa ya mere father behan bhai koi b koi galty kar dein bardi say bardi yahan tak jo saba k sath howa us k apni ammi abu or behan b nahy us ka yakeen kar rahay thay jab k hona tou chahye tha un ko apni beti ka aitbaar lekin aggar wo b wohy dekh rahay thay jo dikhaya ja raha tha aisa b ho tou mein wait karon gi unhey sachai pata chalnay ka or mein unhey dil say maaf kar don gi mere mein hai hosla dosro ki galty ko maaf karnay ka.. or mein tou reh nahy sakhty apney ghar walo k bina... aggar ap log ise kahay k mein practicle nahy hon tou i don't care
guriyaa
from Spain
joined 5 yrs ago
52
9 Apr 2010

dont care but this all is not being practical.. koi family horney ko nahien keh raha koi mauaf na karney ko nahien kehta , woh sab morality hey practicality is a different bird.. youll learn with time
fairy77 [moderator]
from Unknown
joined 4 yrs ago
53
9 Apr 2010

or mere khiyal say practicle log gorray hotay hain jo kissi ki parwah nahy kartay yahan tak apney parents ki b nahi 18 k howay nai k unhey choor k chalay jatay hain or parents b unhey janay detay hain humare pakistan mein tou martay dum tak parents apney bacho ka sochtay hain or bachay apney parents ka bohat kam hota hai k bachay parents ko choor detay hain ya shaddi k baad biwi k kehnay par unhey ghar say nikal detay hain aggar koi aisa kar b dey use jald ehsas ho jata hai...... hum logo mein i think qudrati toor par nai hai practicle life guzarna hum log apno say bohat pyar kartay hain unhe sath lay kar chaltay hain or aik alag c mohabbat hai hum logo mein aik dosraty k kam atay hain chahe koi kuch lagta ho ya na yeh musalman honay ki pehchan b hai acha ikhlaq aik dosray say mohabbat chahe yeh sab ajj kal kam hota hai par hota ab b hai!!!!!
guriyaa
from Spain
joined 5 yrs ago
54
9 Apr 2010

or sis mohabbat wali baat jo ap kehty hain k mohabbat soch k ki jaty hai im sorry i also don't agree with u... mein nay pehlay b kaha k ajj kal zarorre aisa hota hai k larkay khoubsorty dekhtay hain gora rang green eyes ajj kal tou larkay yeh b dekhtay hain larki k dad k pass paissay hon larki k pass car b ho lolz par yeh sab mohabbat karnay say pehlay nahi dekhtay girlfriend banay say pehlay dekhtay hain or aggar sirf shaddi karni ho mohabbat na hoi ho tou aksar larkay izaatdaar achay gharanay ki larki dekh kar kartay hain shaddi shaid khoubsorti b dekh letay hon par Mohabbat.... is mein nahy dekha jata kuch b na socha samjha jata hai..... yeh ho jaty hai shaid kabhi ap agree karein meri baat say jab ho gi ap ko Mohabbat kissi say tou p< mein nay ap ko bataya tha na mein nay bohat log dekhay jinay mohabbat hoi hai bina khoubsorty dekhay mein ap say aik story share b karty hon jo meri aik bohat close friend k papa ki hai meri friend k mummy papa ki shaddi bohat kam age mein ho gai thi arrange marriage meri friend ki dado ki marzi ki shaddi or meri friend ki Mama bohat beautifull hain and mere uncle meri Ammi jaan hamesha kehty hain balke sab kehtay hain k meri friend amna ki Mama jesi great woman hum nay apni life mein kabhi nai dekhi par amna ki Mama Papa ki shadi k kuch time baad amna k papa ko aik larki say mohabbat ho gai par sab ghar walo amna ki dado or sab k kehnay par wo apni arrange marriage ko nibhatay rahay bachay b ho gaye or bachay barday b ho gaye 3 bacho ki shaddi b ho gai kam age mein hy hoi bacho ki b par ab aa kar unho nay akhir kar hy le dosri shaddi usi say jin say unhey mohabbat hoi thi apni arrange marriage k baad or aggar ap dekho na un ki mohabbat ki larki or un ki mother ki passand ki larki jo amna ki Mama hain un mein zameen asman ka faraq hai un ka koi match banta hy nai apas mein amna ki ammi bohat khoubsorat hain or jo dosri aunty kehna nahy chahye muje par sirf ap ko batanay k liye yeh words use kar rahy hon k wo kala rang bilkul khoubsorat nahy or wo baat b nahi jo un ki pehli wife mein hai par wo un ki mohabbat thi ho gai un ko mohabbat bas unho nay kia soch samjh k ki thi mohabbat??? shaddi shuda honay k bawajood unhey ho gai thi?? shaid ap ko hasi b aye par yeh sachi kahani hai meri apni friend k papa ki so yeh ap ko isi liye sunai mein nay k ap ko bata sakon mohabbat soch samjh k nai hoty yeh bas ho jaty hai.....
guriyaa
from Spain
joined 5 yrs ago
55
9 Apr 2010

ap kese keh rahy koi family chornay ka nahi keh raha muaf karnay ka nahi keh raha yahan ap read karein comments keh raha tha koi tou hy mein nay kaha!
guriyaa
from Spain
joined 5 yrs ago
56
9 Apr 2010

actullay every person has his own experiences with life.....thats y fairyy is saying k mohabbat soch k hoti hai.....laikin life main hamay doosron k tajarbat aur mushahiday say bhi seekhna chahye ....ho sakta hai ap k apnay tajarbat ap ko woh na seekha sakain jo doosro k ap dekh k seekh sakain.......im
anmol_muskan
from Canada
joined 4 yrs ago
57
9 Apr 2010

and im totally agree k mohaabbat kabhi soch k nahi ki jati
anmol_muskan
from Canada
joined 4 yrs ago
58
9 Apr 2010

:)Guria...offend mat ho sis...Allah na keray k tumhen un practicals ka saamna kerna peray jin ka mai ziker ker rahi thi...tum ne kaha kiya maaf na kerna practical hy ..ye hee to mera point tha..k aik insan ki zindagii kiya Quran ki qassam se bhi chotee hy??aik aurat k liye aik aese mard k sath rehna kesa hy jo us k calliber se 5% bhi male na khaata ho ...aap jis darguzar ki bat ker rahi hain sis..usee ka to mai ne hawala diya tha k ager mera khaandaan hee mujhe ruswa kerne per tull jaye ga..mera apna mahboob shauher kharay kharay mujhe apni zindagi se 3 harf keh ker nikaal dega..meri maa mera baap jin ka mai khoon hun wo tak mujhe safayi ka mauqa nahi dain gy to sis tum btao ye sab rishtay mere kis kaam k ??kyun mai aik aese shakhs k peechay apni zindagi tabah keroon jis ne mujhe harf e ghalat ki tarah mita diya ho...mai ye nahi kahtii k her chotee motee baat per khaandan or ghar chordo..nahi hergiz nahin..lekin apni zaat ki tazleel kerwana ye bhi to insaaf nahin..aik aurat kese ye berdasht kersakti hy k usay capable hote hue exploit kiya jaaye..us ki aarzoo us k afkaar us k aim objectives sab ko aag lga dee jaye us gunah k liye jo us ne kiya bhi nahi..
booo
from Saudi Arabia
joined 4 yrs ago
59
9 Apr 2010

booo jo aap k husband ne kaha tha yeh baat arfeen ne bhi saba se kahi thi.koi bhi mard apni wife ka naam kisi aur mard k saath bardasht nahi karta,even in countries mein bhi jahan aurat ki hakumat aur azadi hai jin ko kisi mard k cchorny se koi farq nahi parta.tu humari aurtoon ko tu apni hurmat ka buhat pass hota hai.its true k Quran ki qasam se bari koi cheez nahi.jo khuda ko hazir nazir jaan k jhoot boalta hai tu u watched it k Allah khud us ki saaza deta hai.arfeen ne us waqat jo kiya koi bhi normal insaan yehi karta.its male dominated world.
mishal09
from Canada
joined 5 yrs ago
60
9 Apr 2010

bas g yahi baat to mrs booo ko samjh nahi a rahi ....k jis nay QURAN utha lia us say aur koi baat poochna fazool hai...kiun k ham nay to Quran ki gawahi ko sach mana na k us banday ko............kiun k jisay QURAN ki azmat ka ahsas hai wohi QURAN ki gawahi ko sach manay ga chahay woh aik jhoota insan hi kiun na day raha ho...agay ka mamla us ka aur ALLAH ka hai..
anmol_muskan
from Canada
joined 4 yrs ago
61
10 Apr 2010

do you know there isnt any ting like quran ki qasam in islam? qasam sirf Allah ki zaat ki hey aur kisi ki bhi nahie sirf usika kafara hey...
muaf na karna ya family chorna practicality nahien hey yeh selfishness hey practicality yeh hey keh jo bhi halat hien us ko samney rakhtey hoy apney aap par qaboo rakhien aurwoh faisla karien jo app aur sab key lye behter ho na keh jazbaat mien bhetey rahien aur dil ki manien in short listen to your brain rather following your heart,any ways not i can convince you niether you caoulddo this to me as iam a practical person and you are an emotinal just different personalities.
fairy77 [moderator]
from Unknown
joined 4 yrs ago
62
10 Apr 2010

I dont understand k is forum per majority loag aisy hain jo buhat dheet hain.apny bemaqsad point of view(jo woh aik dafa maun se nikaal chukay hain)ko such sabit karny k liye kuch bhi kehny aur gharny ko tiyar hoty hain.yeh attitude tha arfeen ki maa ka apni anaa k liye us ne Quran ki ahmeet aur us injaam ko jhutla deya tha.aaj duniya mein her insaan apni anaa ki jang larta nazar aata hai.haar nahi manini.Fairy dil ki baat aap kar rahi ho hum sub tu reality bata rahy hain.arfeen ki juga mein hoti tu yehi karti pehly Quran aur phir apni maa(jis ne kabhi zindagi mein us ko koi takleef nahi de ho tu kaisy woh apni maa ki baat ko jhutlata).1st of all aik muslim k liye Quran pak ki ahmeeat sub se ziyada hai,yeh Allah ki hi kitab hai,dont forget it.qasam tu islam mein manah hai chahye kisi ki bhi ho.buhat majboori mein ijaazat hai.
mishal09
from Canada
joined 5 yrs ago
63
11 Apr 2010

tu mishal aap mujhey batien gi keh mien ney dil ki baat kab ki? autr kya ghar key bataya hey?
fairy77 [moderator]
from Unknown
joined 4 yrs ago
64
12 Apr 2010

fairy let it go..Discussion wahan kerni chahye jahan logon k demagh or dill khulay hon...jo point mai ya aap btanay ki koshish ker rahe thay they did not got it..anyhow..
booo
from Saudi Arabia
joined 4 yrs ago
65
12 Apr 2010

salam to all
i just log in to comment on this interesting discussion. we shud not argue with each other as every one has his point of view and should respect other's way of thinking.
i love this drama. if i would be arfeen, i would have might waited for some time to take decision of divorce. but to tell you the truth mothers and especially who seem pious have very very strong impact on their sons. they cant think wrong about them and then if Quran is involved then.... i have exprience about it. abt mrs boo im really impressed with your husband's statement. yahan tu aurat ko kantoon per chalna parta ha chahe kitni educated kyun na ho.
i know so many examples where there was so much trust love and understanding but...
and about saba poeple are saying she should have done this and that...can a woman imagine what will her mental condition when she is blamed by her own mom sister father and divorced by childhood love for nothing and she marries to an illetrate stupid man and lives with him beaten by him. will she be considered a live person or a body with dead soul.
sim12
from United Arab Emirates
joined 4 yrs ago
66
12 Apr 2010

arfeen ne apni maa se bht bari qasm le ker saba ko divorce dee,aise he logo ki baato me aa ker nh di. he ws d only one jis ne saba ki baat suni aur yaqeen kia. wo bhi itna bara jhoot expect nh kar rha tha wo bhi quran pe.end me uska saadatmand beta bhi shyd is he baat ka gift ha warna wo bhi bilkul khali haath hota like the whole family, saba ne bhi apni beti ko arfen k pas hi bheja,perhaps she realized too k he had no choice left.i wud hv done this too..fairy ur points r too valid,but arfeen ko to apni maa pe bhi utna he aitbar tha jitna saba pe.is he lye wo quran pe haat rakh k sach jaana chahta tha ke k phir koi jhot nh bole ga!quran me sirf Allah ki qasm ka zikr ha wo bhi extrem halat me, shyd drama aur novel me itne baray alfaz use karna asaan nh is lye umera ahmed ne quran(jo k yaqeenan drama me asl quran nh hoga) pe haat rakh ke kehlwaya?
boo ur rite, kuch logo ko apne alawa sub ghalat lagte hain, dosre ka pt of view samajhna to dur sunna bhi bardasht nh hota un se,un k khayal me sub kuch kehne ka haq bus unhe ha!zaruri nh k forum pe aap sub ki baat se agree karte hoon, disagree karne aur offend karne me farq tangnazr logo ko samajh nh aata... neways is tarah ke forums se bhi insaan bht kuch seekh sakta ha
mnkhan
from Unknown
joined 4 yrs ago
67
12 Apr 2010

apny point of view ko offend karny k liye doosary se disagree kia jata hai.wats complicated between them.anyways u can b great politicianer.
mishal09
from Canada
joined 5 yrs ago
68
13 Apr 2010

moti 2009 listen kismat wale baat na kary coz dua b koi chez hoti hai so try to change ur opininon
popat
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago
69
13 Apr 2010

moti 2009 agr ap ky keyal m arfeen nay puri khosish kr le tu zara soch kr batai aar yhe sb ap ky sth hota tu kya ap itna krny py mutmin hojate jitna arfeen nay keya.jb ky ap apny lover sy bht pyar karte hn
popat
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago
70
13 Apr 2010

sham .agar saba ko talaq dyni e thi tu shadi ku ki nd 2nd thing agar itn bary dawai keya thy tu pura b utrna tha
popat
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago
71
13 Apr 2010

anmol goooooooood rpl abt mbht
popat
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago
72
13 Apr 2010

guriya .jo bat tum ny kius ky leya mai dua go hn ALLAH tmy mazd dosro ki galtiya maaf krny ki himat dai but 1 thing here us familt ka kya faida jio ap py atibr na kary???????????????
popat
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago
73
13 Apr 2010

anmol y bat ap n galt kahe hai quran ki gawahi chai jhoota insan hi dy raha ho .pia aqal jis din ky leya bacha kr rahki hai
popat
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago
74
13 Apr 2010

mihal ,arfeen kasam uhtwany sy bhtr adil sy rbta krta
popat
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago
75
13 Apr 2010

@mishal: offend karne aur disagree karne ka farq behter hoga aap dictionary se dekh lain plz. 'APNE POINT OF VIEW KO OFFEND' karne se pehle:)
no comments at 'POLITICIANER'@@
mnkhan
from Unknown
joined 4 yrs ago
76
16 Apr 2010

kahn ho sb log
popat
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago
77
16 Apr 2010

yes we r here but there is no use to say something jab agla banda koi aqal ki baat sunnay ko tayyar hi na ho............u tell popat.....ka agar ap k saath arfeen wala case ho .....ap ko beloved say buhut muhabbat ho rite????aur ap ko yaqeen bhi ho k woh kabhi kuch ghalat nahi kaer sakta....laikin agar ap k samnay hi ap ka sab say payar karnay wala banda ap ko QURAN utha k kahay ho tumara beloved buhut ghalat insan hai to tell me sach sach k ap kia QURAN ko sach nahi mano gay???ya kaho gay k nahi QURAN ki baat nahi manni mujhay mujhay pata hai maira beloved sahi hai......ap ki QURAN ki kasam nahi manni......kia ap aisay kar saktay ho kia????
bayshak insan ko ALLAH nay aqal di hai laikin aisi siuation main to insan ko kuch samjh hi nahi ata aur hota wohi hai jo kismat ap k saath karna chahhti hai chahay ap jitnay bhi aqal walay hon..............
aur booo jo batain kar rahi thee woh to kisi story ki hi lagti hain ......because seedhi aur samjh main anay wali baat hai jo main nay kahi hai
anyways sab ko raye ka haq hai.....no hard feelings
anmol_muskan
from Canada
joined 4 yrs ago
78
19 Apr 2010

I just want to say k baatainkarna asaan hai ,u ppl being emotional.reality s this k aisi situation mein her mard aisy hi karta hai.abut Quran her muslim bhi aisy hi karta hai. Quran ko mut lao.but its true kisi bhi mard ki zindagi mein yeh mauqa aye tu woh yehi kary ga.chaye pehly se jitny marzi davy kary.I m ending this conversation.I dont believe nobody can ready to accept realities.
mishal09
from Canada
joined 5 yrs ago
79
20 Apr 2010

mishal .dil py mat ly yar
popat
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago
80
20 Apr 2010

anmol..bary bol sy m bachna chao ga so u knw what can i do .1 bt bta dn ky quran nh lao ga INSHALLAH
popat
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago
81
20 Apr 2010

boooooooooooooooooo where
popat
from Pakistan
joined 4 yrs ago

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